Often, it is on the first date that it is decided whether the communication will continue, how the relationship will develop in the future. To make a favorable impression on a girl, you need not rely on a successful improvisation, but think over everything, including topics for conversation and behavior patterns.
Instructions
Step 1
Choose the right place for the date. It will be very difficult to talk in noisy clubs and concerts, so it is better to choose another option. Be sure to consider your preferences. For example, if you feel dizzy just by looking at a roller coaster, you should not go with a girl to an amusement park, because there you will not be able to behave with dignity. Men who are afraid that they will not be able to eat without squishing, munching and not violating the rules of etiquette should not go with their chosen one to a cafe.
Step 2
Don't forget that girls on the first date are also worried and want to be liked. Behave so as not to embarrass or upset your companion. You should not talk to her on topics in which she does not understand at all, trying only to demonstrate her erudition. You also don't need to be overly assertive, especially if you see that it is unpleasant for your chosen one. Perhaps during the meeting, she will endure it, but later she will try to do everything possible so that the second date does not happen.
Step 3
Be confident and calm. If you start to worry and find yourself fiddling with a button or frantically trying to remember a list of good conversation topics, think about the fact that the girl has already agreed to come to a meeting with you, which means that she likes you. Your lack of self-confidence can only ruin everything.
Step 4
If you don't know what to talk about, smoothly translate the conversation to your interlocutor. This will demonstrate your interest, learn more about the girl and be able to easily turn the conversation back on track. However, be careful: you should not ask your chosen one about her ex-boyfriends or ask her questions that may seem indecent, and even more insulting.
Step 5
Try to be friendly, friendly, and considerate. Excessive familiarity, promiscuity, the habit of making fun of other people and extolling yourself are not what will help you to be liked. A much better option would be sincere smiles, openness in communication, naturalness.
