For all the seeming incongruity of the words "divorce and pregnancy", this also happens. Quite a lot of women find themselves in a situation where they find out about pregnancy after the relationship with her husband has been severed or simply cannot continue to live with her husband even because of their position. There simply cannot be universal recommendations in this case, but if you follow certain rules, it will be easier to find peace of mind.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, remember that the child is not to blame for being born in this situation, and deciding on an abortion is the last possible solution to the problem. Of course, being alone with a small child in your arms is very scary, but the old proverb says that God gives a child, so he gives to a child. Therefore, it is necessary to think soberly and try to minimize the consequences of divorce, so as not to harm the future baby.
Step 2
Analyze the situation and try to understand the reasons for what happened. If the husband could not cope with the responsibility entrusted to him and, having learned about future fatherhood, left, then is such a life partner needed? A child needs a father who will help his mother in all situations, no matter how difficult they may be.
Step 3
Do not blame yourself for what happened, even if there are some omissions. In this case, the breakdown of relations has already taken place and it will not be easier from the realization that there were mistakes in some actions. In addition, the fact that a man left a pregnant woman does not do him much credit either.
Step 4
Don't assume that there are ways to get through a divorce painlessly. Alas, it will definitely hurt, but waiting for a child will not allow you to relax and engage in self-flagellation. Over time, feelings will dull, and a look at a smiling baby will only cause gloating in relation to an ex-husband who cannot enjoy this miracle.
