The age of 3 years is the most important period of personality formation. Many mothers and fathers are experiencing an aggravation of relations with the child, the difficulties of getting the baby used to kindergarten. Children now need not only the company of their parents, but also their peers, they learn to play by the rules. Parents should know about all the "pitfalls" of upbringing in this difficult stage of a child's life.
Instructions
Step 1
It is common for children 3 years old to be mobile and curious. To ensure the timely development of the baby, he needs to properly organize his leisure time. Focus on games that develop fine motor skills of the fingers, as this is directly related to the formation of the brain of children. These can be simple devices from a constructor, folding pictures from cubes, mosaics or puzzles, games to perform simple movements in response to the words of an adult, learning poems, making crafts together with a parent, drawing, role-playing games for daughters-mothers, doctors, etc. etc. Take time each day to improve your child's overall physical development. These are outdoor games, exercises, hiking, rollerblading and cycling under the supervision of an adult. A child of 3 years old needs the company of peers. At this age, it is useful to arrange a kindergarten. If this is not possible, try for the child to learn to communicate with peers on a walk, arrange children's parties.
Step 2
The development of a 3-year-old child proceeds correctly if he has certain skills and abilities. Parents do not need to perform for him those actions that he can do on his own. Especially when it comes to self-service: dressing, undressing, eating, hygiene, toilet. Make the most of young children’s ability to imitate. It is unreasonable to teach a child to clean up toys after himself if dad has not learned how to put his clothes in the closet, and mom leaves dirty dishes on the table after eating. A 3-year-old kid is happy to help parents with household chores. Naturally, he is not doing well yet. It is important not to discourage a child's desire to work. Therefore, in no case should you be scolded for the inept performance of the case, otherwise work will turn into punishment.
Step 3
Take care of your child's safety before he goes to kindergarten. He must know his last name, first name, patronymic and last names of his parents, as well as his address. Encourage him to talk about his life: what he ate, what he did, who he played with. Teach him that you can't go to strangers, even if they offer sweets, toys and more. Teach you how to wash your hands before eating, behave correctly at the table, use a handkerchief, say hello and say goodbye. Keep in mind that the child also learns from the parents for cultural behavior in society. It is important that the child learns in advance how to share his toys, play by the rules, and stand up for himself. It is recommended to teach kids up to 3 years old to the word "No". That is, the child must clearly know that everything that is dangerous cannot be: turn on electrical appliances, go out to one of the houses, take matches, etc.
Step 4
A child at about the age of 2, 5 - 3, 5 years old has a crisis. This manifests itself in the desire for independence: the desire to achieve one's own, to do the opposite; disobedience to adults. Parents need to understand that this transitional period is necessary for children to develop will and pride. It is important to maintain a good relationship with your child. To mitigate the crisis of 3 years in children, it is necessary to accustom the baby to the daily regimen in advance. This will weaken the child's struggle to do common things like getting dressed, eating, going to bed, etc. Use the child's ability at this age to quickly switch from one activity to another. That is, instead of confronting the baby, you can divert his attention to something interesting and pleasant. Behave with your baby as if you were an equal: try to consult with him, let him do a lot on your own. But in no case should the baby be allowed anything, guided by the harmful principle: “No matter what the child is having fun, as long as it does not cry.” A 3-year crisis usually resolves within 1 year.
