Unrequited love happens in the life of every person. She leaves behind a feeling of emptiness and dissatisfaction. In a situation like this, there are a number of things you can do to alleviate the pain of unrequited love.
How to deal with emotions?
In this situation, in fact, nothing can be done. It's best to just leave emotions, feelings in the past and move into the future. However, not everyone can do it so easily. It is very important for many women to try to make a difference. They are divided into two large groups. It is important for the first to achieve the goal so as not to cripple their own pride, the second does not give a damn about pride and pride, they are ready for anything, just not to lose their feelings. Both options are not very good, because love cannot be created out of nothing and cannot be held by force.
Women who step over their pride and self-esteem usually receive nothing but contempt from the person they love. Very rarely they can convince their lover to give them a chance, but such love out of despair and pity rarely leads to anything good. Women for whom it is important to achieve love in order not to be pitiful, commit a number of irreparable acts, seriously complicating their lives, or simply waste too much energy to achieve an ephemeral result.
What to do?
The best option in the case of unrequited love is to fight with yourself for your happiness. It is very important to convince yourself that you just need to live on, giving up suffering and rushing.
First of all, you need to understand the feelings, to understand how strong they are. Most often, a serious thoughtful analysis shows that this love arose from a feeling of loneliness, which means that any other mutual romance can drown it out, since it will remove its root cause. In this case, it is enough just to start looking for another suitable object for the application of the senses. And you shouldn't look for him somewhere far away, most likely some wonderful man is already in your environment.
If unrequited love is based on more than just the desire to “be more than one,” think about the behavior and character of your beloved. Perhaps he has an interest in you or stronger feelings, but is afraid to show, because men have a huge number of dubious stereotypes about the correct "male" behavior. In this case, the easiest way is to call him for a frank conversation in order to dot all the i's. It can be painful, but much easier than endless flirting and careful exploration. Plus, if his answer is no, you don't have to hesitate anymore. An uncompromising "no" makes you move on, despite self-pity.
Fight for your own love or break off relationships - you will have to decide only for yourself. However, remember that men don't like overly clingy women. This is because it is alien to their nature. Do not forget that a man is a hunter who likes to get a woman's favor himself. That is why you should not captivate him. It might be better to just let him go and wait to meet someone who loves you.
