Sometimes the relationship in a couple does not develop in the most prosperous way. A man can unexpectedly break a seemingly strong bond and leave without explanation. In this case, a woman can only be perplexed and wonder how to return her beloved.
Instructions
Step 1
Be patient to get started. Remember that there can be a lot of reasons that led to the separation. Perhaps your beloved has been captivated by some other woman. It often happens that this is only a temporary passion. In the future, he can calm down, see the light and understand what mistake he made. In this case, everything should be resolved by itself soon. Of course, this is not always the case.
Step 2
Try to relax. Develop, change the environment, go to rest. It might also be worth trying new relationships. But if the feelings are too strong, of course, you will not be able to relax for long.
Step 3
Go aggressively towards your goal and be consistent. No need to bombard a man with messages or letters and bother with calls. In short, be obsessive. Understand that he left you because something did not suit him in such a life. Perhaps there was something he didn't like about you. Therefore, if you start actively harassing him now, it will only aggravate the situation. Let go of your man. You must clearly understand that it is not yours at this time. A man must feel freedom and make a decision on his own. Therefore, keep your emotions in check.
Step 4
Become your beloved friend. If the breakup was bad, try to establish a friendly relationship with the man after a while. After all, if the feelings were strong enough, he still will not be able to completely erase you from his heart and memory, since you are too tightly bound. Invite him to become friends yourself, let him trust you as a friend. Find common topics of conversation that aren't relevant to your relationship. And by no means be an open book for him. Do not tell him all the details of your life, especially your personal one. Let him be tormented by curiosity and interest.
Step 5
Take care of yourself. Do not allow yourself to become overgrown with a bunch of complexes just because your loved one dumped you. Perhaps if you update your wardrobe, get a new haircut and sign up for fitness, you will be able to open up to the former young man from a new perspective and he will be interested in you with renewed vigor.
Step 6
And remember that if this is your destiny, you will definitely be together. If there is a feeling that your couple has no future and this person is not yours, just let him go and forget. He's not the last man on Earth.
