In life, every person has made mistakes at least once. And it so happens that the surrounding people suffer from these oversights. This causes a strong sense of guilt towards others, it is especially pronounced in relation to loved ones. The guilty person begins to behave unnaturally, tries to earn forgiveness.
Instructions
Step 1
Guilt can be overt and hidden. If others know about it, then the person also shows it, not hiding it. And it happens that he did, but they don’t know around, but the inner feeling of guilt is present. The second option can be recognized if you look closely. The person suddenly begins to please and agree. He does what he would not have done under any pretext before.
Step 2
Often, the guilty person begins to bombard those who have been harmed with gifts. It's like he's trying to buy forgiveness. These can be small presents, or they can be quite large, it depends on the financial situation of the person, as well as on the depth of the sense of responsibility. It is not necessary to perceive every gift as a smoothing over of guilt, but it is worth asking: "And in honor of what are these things?" If a person openly says that he just wants to please loved ones, then everything is fine. But if there is guilt, he will begin to come up with strange reasons. And it will immediately become clear from him that he is lying.
Step 3
A guilty person wants to appear right in the eyes of others, tries to be perfect. There are even people who constantly live with this feeling. They usually do not know how to refuse, they always agree to help. In teams, you can see them immediately, they get all the hard work, they stay late and have the most responsibilities. This does not mean at all that a person is guilty in this workplace, most likely he has an innate sense of guilt and he always tries to be perfect, and many people use this.
Step 4
The act quite often weighs on the offender, he himself can blab out what happened. You just need to bring him to a conversation, but not serious, but encouraging, about his life. Just listen to what he has to say, and information about what happened is likely to slip somewhere. "The hat is on fire for a thief," this proverb is not in vain among the people. Usually it is very clear from the behavior that something is wrong with the person.
Step 5
If you notice that the person has feelings of guilt, don't be discouraged ahead of time. You don't need to think that he did something terrible, because such feelings often arise even because of trifles. A late arrival, a missed call, a canceled meeting can be a cause, not a bad event. Just talk honestly with the person, tell him that you are not offended, remove this burden from him, and he will be grateful to you for a long time to come.
