Getting married is no laughing matter. Most young couples on the doorstep of the registry office desperately believe that this union will last a lifetime, but dreams often collapse, and those very unions fall apart. It is possible not to make a mistake in choosing a husband and live a long and happy life with him only if you are ready to carefully and impartially evaluate the candidate for spouse before being printed in your passport.
Instructions
Step 1
Look for someone with a similar life position. The foundation of a family is based on religion, worldview, plans for the future, attitude towards work and money. If you have fundamental differences on any issue, most likely your life together will not work out.
Step 2
Pay attention to his family. The relationship in her can tell a lot about a man. The following points are important: whether the family is complete, the relationship of the son to the mother, and the mother to her son, the relationship with brothers and sisters, with the father. All this is deposited in the subconscious, your man will unconsciously strive to create a union similar to a parental union, with the same traditions that have haunted him since childhood. Therefore, if his family does not fundamentally suit you with something, you will have to break off the relationship.
Step 3
Get to know the friends and girlfriends of your chosen one better. They are the ones who are able to tell you about how a man spends his free time, in which circles he communicates and how he evaluates himself. Also, appreciate his relationship with women. Gallantry and respect speak of a good upbringing and an instilled habit of respecting the weaker sex.
Step 4
Do not rush to get married before you recognize your partner in everyday life. Many unions fail in the first year due to complete incompatibility in everyday matters. Be sure to live together for at least six months - this way you will protect yourself from disappointment in family life due to scattered socks, belly scratching on the couch and other unpleasant habits of the chosen one.
Step 5
Don't indulge your family and friends. Try to perceive him as a secondary, not a decisive factor in choosing a husband. Rely only on yourself, your feelings and emotions. Of course, if you are turned your head, and everyone around you is repeating that you have chosen an unworthy person, you should think about it. In other cases, mind and feelings will be your allies.
