Rare lucky people start dating from school and carry their love throughout their lives. Other people go through trial and error to find the perfect candidate. How to understand that the object of your new love is worthy of becoming a constant companion in life?
Instructions
Step 1
Dreaming of a man with a strong character who will provide for you and make important decisions, but at the same time will allow you to hang out in bars all night long with your girlfriends and flirt with cute strangers? Think about the fact that these traits contradict each other: a strong man will not allow strangers to approach you. If your chosen one turned out to be a combination of opposite qualities, think hard before connecting fate with him. If this internal contradiction is strongly expressed, the person is most likely a mentally unstable person. At first, you may be very interested with him, but then problems will inevitably surface.
Step 2
Get to know the parents of your chosen one or chosen one. If his mother and father live in harmony, most likely, their child has formed the correct ideas about the family, which means that the chances of a successful marriage are high. Of course, if the parents of your lover have separated, or there is discord in the family, this is not a reason to abandon the relationship, but you should take a closer look at him - it may not be easy for you at first.
Step 3
Introduce your chosen one to your parents and friends. Perhaps you are in a state of love, hormones are raging in your blood, and rose-colored glasses are in your eyes, and it is difficult for you to see your partner's flaws. Of course, you should not rely on the opinion of loved ones in everything, but you should listen to their words, because they only wish you well.
Step 4
Think about whether you are interested in communicating with your loved one. You can have amazing sex, you can spend hours holding hands and staring at the starry sky, but communication is also important for family life. You may have different interests, but in conversations you learn new things from each other, and you have similar views on many life situations. If you get bored as soon as your partner opens his mouth, it is better to end the relationship.
