Sex does not always bring pleasure to both partners. Women especially often suffer in this regard: there are four positions that cause discomfort to the fair sex and do not give the desired orgasm.
Missionary position
Oddly enough, the most classic and common position in sex is very often the most disliked among women. It's all about a large number of body movements performed by a man. The partner of the stronger sex has to constantly strain his arms in order to keep himself in a comfortable position. Often, a man is simply unable to maintain it for a long time, and the frequent change of posture will not allow both partners to relax.
To dominate the pose from above for as long as possible, partners of the stronger sex go to all sorts of tricks. For example, at an unexpected moment, they can relax their hands and simply lean on their partner with their entire body weight. This is not always a pleasant sensation for a woman, who, moreover, has to feel the loud sniffing of her partner in her ear, observe his tired and tense face. Thus, the missionary position is recommended only for men who are confident in their abilities, as well as for women who enjoy maximum intimacy with their lover.
Cowgirl pose
Men usually just adore this sex position, because you can lie relaxed and have fun, leaving all the activity to your partner. The latter will not necessarily be delighted with such a fate: you will need to really sweat for the sexual intercourse to truly succeed. If a woman has little stamina, she will have a particularly hard time, and quick fatigue will make you forget about any possible pleasures.
Shy females will also not find the riding position attractive for themselves. All of the man's attention will be focused on the face and body of his partner, as well as on her ability to move in a position from above. Thinking about it all the time can greatly diminish the pleasure you get and throw you off the rhythm. As a result, both partners will not get the desired sensations. In this case, we can recommend the "reverse cowgirl" position: this way the woman will not be in eye contact with her partner and will be able to better concentrate on the sensations she receives.
Pose "69"
At first glance, this position seems to be quite erotic, and many couples experience it without fail. As a result, disappointment quickly comes. In fact, it turns out that bringing and receiving pleasure at the same time does not go well with each other. In addition, a woman has to make more efforts than her partner, and at the most unexpected moment, fatigue in the muscles of the back and neck can occur, nullifying the entire effect of the pose.
Lack of stamina, shyness, lack of skills in delivering oral sex - all this forces the partner to change the pose "69" during intercourse as soon as possible. At the same time, it often turns out that a man is faced with the same difficulties. Thus, "69" is usually used only at the very beginning of sex, when lovers want to quickly get maximum arousal and move to more active positions.
Doggy Style Pose
It is believed that both men and women love this position equally, but it depends on the partners' ability to follow the correct technique, avoiding common mistakes. Firstly, some of the stronger sex make too intense movements, reaching the uterus itself. This gives a woman extremely unpleasant sensations. Secondly, due to the difference in the growth of partners, they have to constantly change the position of the body and legs, which is why the rhythm of the process is disturbed. In addition, in the absence of proper contraception, the rear position becomes the most risky in terms of the onset of an unwanted pregnancy.
So, in each of the listed positions, partners should not rush and make chaotic movements. It is very important to follow each other's feelings. Moreover, you need to do this not only visually, but also do not hesitate to ask leading questions about whether this position does not deliver unpleasant sensations to your partner or partner, what position is better to take at the moment, and would not it be better to change your position right now? Over time, an unspoken understanding will come to both partners, and sex will give them real pleasure.
