People highly value the feeling of love and being in love, but not everyone believes in its existence or considers it a temporary phenomenon that can suddenly fade away over time.
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Step 1
Alexander Polev, Ph. D., compares love to obsessive-compulsive disorder. He attributes similar symptoms to this feeling. However, at present, psychologists are sure that a person falls in love not when he meets a worthy candidate for the role of a companion in his life, but precisely at the moment when he is on the verge of depression. During such a period, people need to receive new impressions and emotions that can overshadow all failures in life and distract at least a little from problems. If we look at love from this point of view, we can conclude that it will pass as soon as everything in a person's life is adjusted and falls into place. The feeling of euphoria will disappear, and he will be able to look at the object of his adoration with a sober look. The first thing that becomes clear is that you simply attributed to your significant other traits that are actually not inherent in her. In a depressed emotional state, you idealized a member of the opposite sex, but, unfortunately, you were wrong.
Step 2
Aside from scientific research, you can imagine a situation in which people really love each other for a long time. Can this feeling pass? Sometimes it can, because nothing is eternal. The point is that it all depends on the specific situation. If you have feelings for a man who does not appreciate you, can afford to humiliate and insult you, over time you may get tired of it, and your love will turn into hatred or even indifference, which, in fact, is even worse.
Step 3
Another thing is when you cannot be with your loved one due to the circumstances. There were no quarrels, disagreements, misunderstandings between you, you have only the brightest and warmest memories of your relationship, but at one moment your soul mate simply did not stand there. Perhaps the person simply moved to live in another city or, worst of all, died. In such situations, love, if it is truly real, can accompany you throughout your life. Yes, you will start a family, give birth and will raise children, everything will be stable for you, but your heart can forever remain with the person you once truly loved.
Step 4
To the question of whether true and sincere love can ever pass, it is impossible to give an unambiguous concrete answer, since everything depends only on the situation and on the person who is experiencing this tender feeling.
