Parting with a person dear to your heart is not easy, you may want to return him and improve relations. It is necessary to behave correctly in order to reunite and become happy again.
Instructions
Step 1
Choose the right behavior to stick with in his presence. Calmness and equanimity, cheerfulness and optimism should not leave you. Even if you are very upset about the breakup, do not try to openly demonstrate it. Do not cry, beg, threaten or try to put pressure on a man in other ways, because this can be met with hostility and will alienate him from you.
Step 2
Take care of yourself, stay beautiful. Become better than you were before the breakup. Go to a beauty salon, update your wardrobe, hairstyle, relax. Try to look charming the next time you meet. Seeing a dramatic change, a man can forget about the quarrel and forgive all insults.
Step 3
Maintain a good relationship with the departed person. Try to restrain resentment and accusations against him, ask about business and mood. Speak more without touching the topic of parting and your claims. Use mutual acquaintances to find out the necessary information about his life. Ask them to contribute to your reconciliation - talk to him, offer to discuss the problem.
Step 4
Do not impose your communication on him, do not pester him with calls or messages. Don't try to cross, don't make too many appointments. Show your affection and wait for a response. Make him feel lonely, and it takes time to get bored. Take a short break before getting in touch and asking to see you.
Step 5
Talk openly and honestly. Discuss everything boiling over, speak out, listen to the interlocutor, but everything in calm tones, avoiding squabbles. Tell us that you miss him, that you miss him, remember how happy you were together. If he's optimistic, talk about a possible reunion. How he sees it, what needs to change, be involved and discuss all issues.
