Resuming a relationship after a breakup or quarrel is a rather difficult process, and sometimes just an insurmountable barrier for a couple. And before deciding on this act, weigh all the pros and cons, think carefully and make sure that you really need it.
Analyze the situation. The important points here are the duration of your relationship, its quality, and the reasons why you broke up. If a young man has become guilty of your separation, then you must be sure that he understood his mistake and regrets his deed. If this happened through your fault, then you have to win the forgiveness and trust of your boyfriend, to convince him that your feelings are still valid.
Act in accordance with the situation that has developed. If you are the reason for the breakup, then first of all you need to apologize to your beloved, demonstrate, on occasion, your respect for him. If the guy is guilty, make it clear that his act touched you, keep a certain distance in the relationship. Just don't overdo it so you don't seem too arrogant. Try to make him apologize and realize your mistake.
Feelings are tested by distance. Make him miss you. And remember that, be that as it may, life does not end, and the world has not converged in a wedge on him alone, even if you love him very much. After spending some time apart, each of you will be able to better analyze the situation, draw some conclusions.
Intrusive calls and SMS messages to the guy will also be inappropriate on your part. Don't show him that you are dependent on him by instantly answering his messages and calls. Show your independence.
In the process of reconciliation, do not go for funny, childish actions, throwing up various notes or using the help of a third person. Behave like an adult. Just find the right time, setting, and seriously discuss the problem.
Get ready for anything. It may not be possible to achieve reconciliation and renew relations the first time. Most likely, your beloved will not immediately agree to any changes. Do not be offended if his reaction is quite categorical and negative. Better try to understand what feelings are behind his emotions. And if after a while he wants to talk to you again, do not remember his past negative conversation.