Sometimes relationships do not develop according to the most favorable scenario. A man can suddenly break a seemingly strong bond and leave without explanation. A woman can only be perplexed and ask herself how to return her beloved without resorting to unworthy methods.
Instructions
Step 1
Answer yourself to the question, what makes you renew the old connection instead of looking for a new one. Love? This is not always obvious. Sometimes a woman is simply afraid to be left alone, or she is worried about the issue of material support, which a man always decided for her. Perhaps, in this case, it makes sense to look for another source of income.
Step 2
Understand the reasons for your breakup, no matter how painful it may be. Even if the man just left, leaving a note with a stingy apology, it is important to understand what did not suit him in his relationship with you. Ask him about it when you calm down a little.
Step 3
If you were left for another woman, consider whether you are ready for a grueling struggle and endless competition. Will you be able to accept back the man who hurt your pride so painfully? Is it really worth it? Then take a closer look at his new passion and try to become a little like her. According to your man, she has something that you sorely lack.
Step 4
If a man left because you are far from his ideal, and he wants to fix something in you, get ready to listen to a number of complaints from him. He may have said them before, but now, instead of objecting, you have to take note of them.
Step 5
Refuse the temptation to turn to the services of the so-called sorcerers and fortune-tellers who promise to "make a love spell for life." It is unknown how their manipulation will affect your mental health. But going to a psychologist will not be superfluous. Having understood the situation, an experienced specialist will be able to give you good advice.
Step 6
Do not beg him to return by terrorizing him with letters and calls. Moreover, one should not blackmail him with children, threatening to take them to the end of the world, because “they don’t need such a dad”. A thin world is better than a good quarrel. Try to at least remain neutral - "military action" on your part significantly reduces the chances of renewal of relations.
Step 7
Build a relationship with another man! You can just be friendly. Get out together on a visit, go to the movies, let your ex know that you are not lost without him. Perhaps, contrary to popular belief, he will not come running back, but at least you will not suffer severely from loneliness. And who knows, maybe you will find a new love in this way.
