It so happens that a man and a woman love each other, but their worldview models do not coincide. No compromise can be found. The conflict turns into a quarrel or even ends in parting. A little later, the woman begins to regret it and wants to return her lover as quickly as possible. What can you do to get your loved one back?
Instructions
Step 1
Calm down, stop worrying. Try to achieve inner harmony. In a nervous and excited state, it will not work to return a loved one. Excitement in this situation is your enemy. Your inner tension will be transmitted to the man, and he will not make contact with you. Negative emotions will prevent you from renewing your relationship with your beloved. Therefore, set yourself up for the fact that you will definitely return your loved one.
Step 2
Think about your relationship with your loved one, about your way of communicating with him. If he left, it means that he didn’t like something about you. This means that your behavior did not seem harmonious to him. Try to understand what mistakes you made when communicating with a man and how you can fix them. Be self-critical, it will help you find all your flaws. To get your lover back? you will need to work on yourself and change.
Step 3
Get ready to take action. But this does not mean that you need to bother the man, call him every minute, watch him after work. Such obsession will be counterproductive. The man will begin to hide from you and avoid. You need to act delicately and gradually, otherwise your loved one may be afraid of your pressure.
Step 4
Remember why this man met you and fell in love with you. What traits and qualities attracted him? And why did he decide to leave? Try to internally become what you were when you met this man. Perhaps you used to be an interesting conversationalist, but now you are mired in everyday life? Or maybe you used to be a gorgeous woman, but now you don't take off your dressing gown? Think about why the man has lost interest in you. What does he lack in you now?
Step 5
Make an action plan based on your past mistakes. Don't try to get everything done in the shortest possible time. The man needs a little time to learn to appreciate you again.
Step 6
Seek help from a psychologist. A qualified specialist will help you analyze your mistakes. He will give practical advice that will help bring your loved one back and resume the relationship. But keep in mind that you have to act.
