A woman can part with her beloved man for many reasons, and in each case it is very offensive and painful for her. Even if she herself was the initiator of the break. What can we say if they parted on the initiative of a young man! But often, even while experiencing a completely understandable resentment, pain, irritation, a girl cannot forget a person who was dear to her. She wants to get him back. What is the best way to do this?
Instructions
Step 1
Do nothing in a rush, hastily. It is necessary to wait for a while, to calm down, so that the first, strongest, emotions subside.
Step 2
Then, calling on common sense and prudence for help, objectively and impartially analyze the reason for the gap. It's not just that it happened. Resist the understandable and natural temptation to “spare” yourself by dumping all the blame on the other side. Believe me, you will only make it worse for yourself.
Step 3
In no case do not go on the heels of your former lover, do not hang on his neck! It goes without saying, do not make scenes, scandals, especially in front of strangers. From the outside, this produces a simply repulsive sight. Remember: there is no true love without respect. And to be respected, you must respect yourself.
Step 4
Having examined your behavior, having understood the mistakes you have made, you must actually "make yourself again." To become a completely different person - an interesting, mysterious woman, at the sight of which your ex-man will experience a whole range of feelings. And he will surely think about it, but did he dump the fool, parting with you? Did you rush to the decision?
Step 5
To do this, you must, first of all, become benevolent, cheerful, learn to receive positive emotions from life. Shake yourself up, find yourself an interesting hobby, change your image. Make an original hairstyle, choose a different make-up, dye your hair, change your wardrobe, finally.
Step 6
Try to change the environment at least for a while, to leave the place where everything reminds you of parting with your loved one. The best option is a non-binding holiday romance. As soon as you feel like a charming woman, your self-esteem will grow, and this is absolutely necessary.
Step 7
And after all this, try, as if by chance, to meet with your former lover. And then everything is already in your hands.
