Pregnancy and childbirth are always a great miracle for parents, and if twins are born, then happiness is twice as great. But on the shoulders of mothers and fathers of newborns, in addition to boundless joy, is not an easy task - to be able to give their babies maximum attention, care, love and affection. They will have to bring up a separate personality in each child, but without breaking their unique bonds. Before them are two tiny human souls, two completely different little men, each of which in the future will only move along its own path of life.
It is necessary
attention, love and patience
Instructions
Step 1
Don't use similar names for babies. It is best if they are completely different in sound and pronunciation. It is very difficult for young children to get used to this, and in most cases they start to get confused in their names.
Step 2
Up to a year and a half, babies can be dressed up in exactly the same clothes and given the same toys. This will not affect child development in any way. But, as the children get older, try to dress them in different clothes. This will contribute to their personal development, as each of them has its own character.
Step 3
After nine to ten months, babies begin to be jealous of their mother for each other. At this point, try to give your attention to each individual.
Step 4
From the very beginning, teach your little ones to eat at the same time and be sure to put them to bed at the same time. Develop a daily routine that is convenient for you and adhere to it strictly.
Step 5
Do not torture yourself, bathe the babies on different days, this will greatly simplify your task.
Step 6
For a walk, dress the calmer child first. He will be able to wait five minutes, while the fidget starts to be capricious.
Step 7
Provide a space for each child if possible. Each kid should have his own corner: a table, a chair, a box of toys, pencils, plasticine, albums. Give children both personal and shared toys that they can play together.
Step 8
Play puzzle games with children. Pay attention to how they listen and remember. Take a walk and spend more time outdoors.
Step 9
Try to pay attention to the personality traits of each child and help them to be aware of themselves as a person. Remember that every baby is different. Treat them as individuals with their own needs and desires.
Step 10
Teach children to stick together and protect each other.
Step 11
Feel free to accept any help that is offered to you. After all, raising twins is not an easy job!
