In any, even an ideal family, quarrels occur, better known as irreconcilable differences in divorce. But still, there are certain taboos that are better to adhere to.
Don't be vindictive. Everyone knows the saying "Who will remember the old …". So in family life, it does not work. There is no need to accumulate grievances, unspoken reproaches. This past. If you want to speak out at the same moment in which you were offended - dare, and if you did not find what to answer right away, then there is nothing to quarrel and get angry.
Don't blame. Oh, what a sweet weapon this is the feeling of guilt. But don't overdo it. If you constantly evoke this feeling in your husband or children, then you will never come to a common denominator. And the loss of self-confidence will further disunite you.
Don't insult. When a person is angry, he himself does not know what he is doing. During a quarrel, words flow in such an incoherent stream in which there is room for everything. Learn to say to yourself "Stop!", Because insults spoken with heat can destroy the strongest and most durable union.
Know when to stop. At the end of each case, the person wants to get the result. So it is during a quarrel. Remember where you want to come to. Do not argue for the sake of pleasure, argue for the purpose that you have outlined.
Set boundaries. Never in your life take your family squabbles to people. No one, neither neighbors, nor relatives, nor friends, should know what is happening in your family. Everything should be sealed and your language too. Cooperate in public like birds, even if offended. And already at home, give free rein to your emotions. And don't forget about the best reconciliation after a quarrel!
