Light flirting is not enough for him and he hints at the further development of your relationship. However, you are married and do not plan to part with your spouse for the sake of a new chosen one. It is necessary to dot the "i" - tell him that you are married.
Instructions
Step 1
Set the stage for clarifying the situation - invite him to seriously talk about your relationship. Just don't joke and talk to him in an apologetic tone, the slightest hint of a benevolent attitude will instill in him confidence in the correctness of his intentions towards you. Choose a neutral place and time for conversation - no cozy restaurants and walks under the moon, they set you up exclusively for a romantic mood. The ideal option is a lunch break or the beginning of a working day, the meeting point is a small cafe or a city park.
Step 2
Try to choose neutral clothing and light makeup. You should not be provocatively wearing makeup and dressing sexy for a decisive conversation with a man to whom you plan to tell about your successful marriage. Emphasize your own words, rather than a plunging neckline and short skirt. A spectacular appearance will only cause a storm of emotions in a persistent admirer.
Step 3
Prepare your explanatory speech in advance. In no case tell him that you like him, it is interesting to communicate with him and he is a good person, but your heart is not free now. You can take it as a guide to active action - then you will definitely not get off, because he decides that, in principle, you are not against new relationships. It is best to say that you are happy in marriage and are not going to change anything in your life, that you have made your choice and next to you is the best man in the world. This will hit your pride and will not give the admirer unnecessary hopes for your conquest.
Step 4
Do not fall for persuasion and provocation. A man furious with refusal is capable of much. His behavior is difficult to predict. It's good if he understands your position. But he may cry, kneel, or threaten you or your husband. Do not react to such statements. Most likely, this is just a momentary weakness of the offended person. By answering him in the same way, you will show your vulnerability.
