Love doesn't always last forever. And even if you met a young man, had feelings for him, over time they can pass. In this case, you must definitely tell the man about it.
How to prepare for a serious conversation about a dead love
If you understand that there are no more feelings for a man, do not pull with a bitter confession, but immediately tell him about it. However, before a serious conversation, you need to carefully prepare for this and understand for yourself the reasons that led to the fading of feelings. Try to pull yourself together and find the right words.
How to tell a man that your love is dead
When you clearly understand for yourself what exactly led to the disappearance of your feelings, ask the young man to talk to you, but warn him in advance that the conversation will be very serious and, most likely, unpleasant. Let him appoint a time for the meeting, and you choose the place where no one can interfere with you. It is better to arrange a meeting in neutral territory, but where there will not be many other people.
After you come to the meeting, start the conversation by saying that you have been together for a long time, there were different moments in your relationship: both good and bad. Thank the guy for giving you a lot of pleasant emotions and impressions, but tell him that you got confused in your feelings and began to understand that your love for him has already faded away. You don't have to tell your guy that you feel like you don't love him anymore. The word “seems” can give a person false hope. Speak softly, but be categorical. Of course, your honest confession will hurt a man, but your honesty will be the best thing you can do for him.
When you admit that you have no feelings, try to explain to the representative of the stronger sex what exactly led to such a consequence, because you have already found out all the reasons for yourself. If you have met someone else, do not hide it, but honestly report the appearance of another man in your life. If your feelings died due to the not too good and warm attitude of this young man towards you, let him know. Maybe he will ask you for a second chance, which he will take full advantage of and try to return your love.
In no case during a conversation, do not blame only your man for everything, because no matter what happens between you, both are always to blame. Do not stoop to insults and humiliation of the person to whom you have caused mental pain without all this. Offer your boyfriend to remain friends, but be prepared for the fact that your offer will be rejected by him.
