Many men are not talkative and not sentimental, it seems that they, being so rude, brave and determined, are not afraid of any difficulties and do not pay attention to troubles, achieving their goal. But this is not at all the case. It's just that the upbringing of boys is different and the manifestation of emotions for them is tantamount to the manifestation of their weakness. However, men also need comfort when it is difficult and sad.
Instructions
Step 1
If you already know your boyfriend pretty well, you will of course immediately notice his depressed mood, even if he still makes jokes and pretends that he is doing great. Do not leave this state of his unattended, in the hope that he will cope with the problem himself. This, of course, will happen, but it will be much easier for him to feel your support, and he will always appreciate it.
Step 2
You should not pester him with annoying questions. Just give him a little more attention, tenderness and affection. Tell him that you have noticed his condition and remind him that you are always ready to support him, and your love is always with him. Even without knowing what the matter is, you believe that he will cope with difficulties and find a way out of the most confusing situation.
Step 3
If he wants to share with you, and after such words he probably wants to, then listen to him carefully, without interrupting, and try to restrain your emotions, not panic and, moreover, not laugh if the problem seems far-fetched to you. Ask him clarifying questions and, if he needs your advice, ask for time to think, and then offer him options for your solution. Even if he does not use them, he will be pleased that you took his problem so seriously.
Step 4
Try to distract and entertain him, even if he is reluctant to do so. The wonderful proverb “The morning is wiser than the evening” is about you. Take him out for a walk, to his friends. If he is slightly distracted, then the solution to the problem will be found faster. Yes, and emotional relief will not harm him at all and will slightly weaken the internal nervous tension.
Step 5
Just be with him, touch him more often, kiss him once more, but do not become very intrusive, just touch him with your hand while passing by. It has already been found out that the touch of a woman makes a man stronger, apparently, this comes from childhood. Use your magic arsenal to comfort your boyfriend, support him and give him new strength to overcome life's difficulties.
