So many problems fall on our heads, sometimes it seems that it is simply impossible to solve them. Time passes, there are ways out of difficult situations. Friends also have hard times and they share their problems with the closest people. With those who understand and sympathize.
It is necessary
Frustrated friend
Instructions
Step 1
Now it is worth postponing all matters, listening carefully, finding the right words and trying to cheer up a friend who is on the verge of a nervous breakdown, to provide him with elementary support. Remember what the old adage says: “Shared joy is double joy, and shared grief is half of grief.” The problem may be due to separation from a significant other, the sudden loss of a relative, obstacles at work, or academic failure. It is not enough just to express condolences to a friend, many people consider it their duty to utter soulless words: "Everything will pass", "You can do it." It is useless to calm down in a tragic and serious situation with such words, it is better to sort out all the options together, look with optimism at the problem.
Step 2
Give examples of catastrophic circumstances that could have happened, such as an earthquake, flood, typhus epidemic, but instead there was just a little embarrassment. It wasn't a brick that fell on my head. Life in its variety will often give "gifts." We just need to do a good deed - to give a hand to a loved one, help him rise, force him to rethink our behavior and views.
Step 3
And now the first smile on his face, the friend becomes amused that he perceived all this as a great drama. Little by little, he begins to calm down, sees that the sun is shining brightly outside the window, realizes that one should not be so overwhelmed that all difficulties are temporary. Remind him that each of us has a disappointing fate, no one knows their future.
