Your close friend is about to get married, and you, of course, got the role of a witness. This really honorary title imposes a great responsibility, because you have to share all the pre-wedding chores with the bride, literally marry your girlfriend off.
Instructions
Step 1
After the future groom makes a formal proposal and the date of the celebration is set, the bride is usually seized by a real pre-wedding fever. This is especially true for those girls who prefer to do everything in advance and are perfectionists by nature. During this period, the witness plays the role of not only a faithful assistant in any business, but also a real psychologist.
Step 2
Consider the bride's mood if you are going to start a dialogue about the pros and cons of family life. If you see fear or doubt in the words of the future wife, then be sure to emphasize how happy she will be when a real family life begins with a loved one. And if it seems to you that the bride is too blinded by the upcoming celebration, then it will not be superfluous to remember what lovely stupid things you did to her before.
Step 3
The most exciting moment in pre-wedding preparation is choosing a dress. It may take a few days. You will have to go around all the salons in the city with the bride, look through hundreds of catalogs and help your friend try on dozens of dresses. In no case should you show irritation, even if you are tired of the bride's whims.
Step 4
Help your friend with organizational issues or take them entirely upon yourself. You need to find a hairdresser, make-up artist, photographer, cameraman, musicians, order a car and a hall for the celebration. It can take a lot of time to find the most profitable and high-quality options, and the bride should not be too nervous if something suddenly goes wrong.
Step 5
On your shoulders will fall the obligation to "lead" the bride from the world of unmarried people to the world of family life - to arrange a bachelorette party. If time permits, address this issue after the main organizational aspects of the ceremony have already been settled. A party prepared ineptly and at the wrong time, instead of a joyful surprise, can turn into another annoying factor.
Step 6
If there is a desire and opportunity, take the initiative, taking full responsibility for the little things like buying witness ribbons, sending out wedding invitations, decorating cars in a wedding cortege, etc.
Step 7
Before your wedding day, try to go to bed early and get a good night's sleep so that you can be fully prepared in the morning. You will have to be the first to arrive at the bride's house, help her to gather and calm her nerves. But at the same time, you yourself need to have time to dress up and put on makeup in order to look good. You must plan your time ahead of time.
Step 8
And most importantly, repeat to your friend as often as possible that she is the most beautiful, the happiest, the most extraordinary and made the unconditionally correct choice. All the chores will surely become much more pleasant, and you can easily marry your friend.
