Why does it happen that a man is ready to carry one woman in his arms, gives her expensive gifts, fulfills any of her whims, as soon as she puffs her lips a little, and the other remains to come to terms with the fact that her husband does not show attention, thinks only of himself and not responds to her reproaches? At first glance, it's about love. But in fact, there is one female secret here.
Instructions
Step 1
No matter what beautiful words they say about love, the relationship between a man and a woman is, as a rule, a real war of the sexes. Outwardly, relationships usually look like love, but if you look deeper, this is a real struggle for power. As for men, the desire to subjugate a woman has a long history. In many ways, this was facilitated by patriarchy, in which a man could easily subjugate a woman with the help of power, her material dependence, control, and at worst - with the help of brute physical force. All these methods were aimed at making the woman feel a sense of fear. "If you want to subjugate a person - make him feel fear" (Paolo Coelho). This is the strategy of male control over a woman.
Step 2
Women's strategy and tactics of managing a man are completely different. Although nature has endowed a man with strength, she has endowed a woman with cunning ("female wisdom"). Let's take the same story. History was created by men - kings, generals, public figures, etc. But there was a woman behind almost every one of them. By the way, the French have a well-known proverb on this matter - "Cherche la femme" ("look for a woman"). And in the Russian language there is a proverb: "A man is a head, a woman is a neck, where the neck turns, the head looks there." So our great-great-grandmothers knew a lot about managing a man. They were feminine enough cunning (wise) to understand: the best management is stealthy management. Because "the man rules, and the woman reigns." Yes, remember at least Cleopatra - someone who, and she knew how to control men with the help of her feminine charms and cunning.
Step 3
Men greatly underestimated women, considering them the "weaker sex". And women from time immemorial have used their "weakness" as the most effective manipulation, which is why they say: "a woman's strength lies in her weakness." A typical example: a woman can achieve more with tears than screaming, reproaching, and persuasion. A man can’t bear tears, he takes pity on a woman - and so he did what she wanted. True, this "grandmother's" method has at least 3 drawbacks: firstly, this method cannot be used too often, secondly, it does not work for all men, and thirdly, sooner or later he will simply get tired of it.
Step 4
But there is another way to subjugate a man. It was used by favorites, courtesans, beauties and femme fatale. This method is to fall in love with yourself, but not fall in love with yourself. A man is in love, ready for insanity, but she keeps a "sober" head and uses it: for example, marries herself or "divorces" herself with expensive gifts that should prove the strength of his love, in which she "does not believe". And in order for a man's love to last for a long time (after all, as you know, men are polygamous and fickle), the insidious beauty teased her admirer. For example, today she loves him, and in a few days she is cold and unapproachable. She is a prize that a man must win. And since a man is by nature a gambling hunter, he wants to win and wins her attention again and again.
Step 5
Another powerful female weapon in controlling a man is arousing interest and seduction. It is not for nothing that all women's magazines give advice to always be different, to surprise a man, to seduce him. The fact is that a man must have an interest in order for him to yield to a woman. Because whoever is more interested in a relationship is inferior. This is why a man is most "pliable" at the very beginning of a relationship. When a man gets what he wants, his interest disappears. Therefore, it is said that "a woman should be a mystery to a man." There should always be something unsolved in it that arouses his interest over and over again.
Step 6
Thus, from time immemorial, women have covertly manipulated men. For example, they knew that a man will do what she wants if he wants it and thinks that it is his decision. To do this, you need to create motivation (remember "where the neck turns, the head looks there").
Step 7
In general, there are a lot of ways to control a man - from NLP techniques to various "bitches". But I must say that managing a man (as well as a woman) is a double-edged sword. Because where you win, you lose there. Is manipulation worth playing the game of "who will subdue whom" all your life? Or maybe we should just love each other, give in and take care of each other, and not play a child's game called "battle of the sexes"?
