Even if the guy has already managed to win the heart of his beauty once, then after a while you can still hear the phrases from her lips: “You don't love me”, “It seems to me that you have stopped loving me” or “What is going on between us? . Such phrases infuriate many guys, and the girl in this way just asks for proof of his love.
Why does a guy need to prove his love?
Often, guys are sure that if they are in a relationship with a girl, then this is direct proof of their love. However, many girls disagree. There are a number of reasons why a girl simply cannot enjoy a relationship, and she is gnawed at by doubts and distrust of her partner. These reasons include:
- Low self-esteem and self-doubt. A girl can constantly think and worry that her partner will leave her sooner or later, because she is not good enough, not economic, is overweight, etc. The reason for such self-esteem and self-doubt lies in the girl's childhood, but the guy will have to work with this problem if he really loves her.
- Negative experiences from previous relationships. The previous young man betrayed her, abandoned her, cheated on her, set her up, pulled out all her nerves, and now she will be wary of all men. This is a kind of psychological defense.
- Pathological jealousy. The reason for jealousy can be many, ranging from the girl’s own complexes, ending with the fear of loneliness and the relaxed behavior of the guy in relation to other representatives of the fair sex. Jealousy itself is a normal feeling of a loving person, but when a girl constantly demands proof of love, while simultaneously tracking all calls and messages, demanding constant presence, this is already a pathology.
- Lack of attention. The guy may well have objective reasons not to devote as much time to the girl as she wants. For example, workload or family circumstances (you need help from relatives, etc.). In such a situation, the main thing is to try to gently convey this to your partner.
How to prove your love to a girl?
- Talk more. During communication, you can learn more about your partner (which in the future will be a definite plus), maintain your emotional connection, and clarify any stressful moments that have arisen. Communication is important for girls, it is important for them to understand that the partner is always ready to listen to her, show interest in her life and listen to her feelings.
- Compliment more often. Gentle words from the lips of a loved one always give confidence and improve mood. It is especially important to hear compliments for insecure girls, for them it is like medicine.
- Do things. Beautiful words about eternal love and devotion are, of course, good, but any girl will say that words need to be confirmed by deeds. For example, if a girl is sick, then the guy himself may volunteer to go to the pharmacy for medicines and cook her a light but delicious dinner. If the girl is tired, then the guy can help with cleaning or wash the dishes. Thus, the young man shows that he is ready to take care of his beloved.
- Remember common important dates. The day we started dating, the date of the first date or kiss is a great opportunity to congratulate and show your love, not only in words.
- Have romantic evenings for no reason. Romance is not always a bouquet of flowers and a trip to a fancy restaurant. You can have a romantic picnic, a stroll around the city at night, or go for a ride on the rides together, remembering your childhood. And the hike is also romance. The main thing is to know what the girl loves, and for this you need to follow point 1.
- Show that she has an important place in life. For example, some people quit smoking for the sake of their beloved and begin to lead a healthy lifestyle. Others share their hobbies with the girls.
It's also important to remember that relationships are a shared job. If only one guy works in a relationship, constantly proving his love, and the girl is always unhappy with something, then such a union is doomed to failure.
