In many ways, people face the problem over time when, having become accustomed to the daily repetitive rhythm of life, loving people move away from each other. Sometimes quarrels and conflicts arise on the basis of this, which can lead to separation.
Instructions
Step 1
If you want to preserve your relationship, preserve your loved one and draw his attention to yourself, do not blame him for being indifferent to you. According to the results of psychological research, this is usually not the case at all: a man stops paying attention to a woman, not because he does not love her, but because he is simply used to the established stable relationship, and he already has a schedule according to which he lives every day. therefore, he does not communicate with her so closely and often.
Step 2
You should not try to explain to your partner that, in your opinion, there is a problem in the relationship between you - this will lead nowhere. He will continue to live as before, because everything suited him, and you will be angry because your expectations of some action from your beloved are not met.
Step 3
Start with yourself. You just need to break the usual way that your beloved lives. This is pretty easy to do. First, change your home wardrobe. Get rid of old dressing gowns and old sweaters that you wear at home. In any textile shopping center today you can buy beautiful home dresses, and quite inexpensively. Imagine how pleasant it will be for you when your beloved, coming home from work and seeing you in a new beautiful outfit, will be surprised. This small step will already draw his attention to you.
Step 4
Secondly, arrange a surprise for your significant other - a romantic dinner. Decorate the table, room beautifully, place candles and turn off the lights, serve wine or champagne. In order to warm up the relationship, it is helpful to have small home evenings with your loved one and make small romantic gifts.
Step 5
Thirdly, try to understand and share his interests and hobbies yourself, then you can become for him not only a beloved woman, but also a close friend. He will trust you more and spend time with you.
