Female friendship can be both strong and loyal, and fickle. Despite the fact that all women differ from each other in character, they are all characterized by impulsiveness and emotionality, and this often becomes the cause of quarrels between girlfriends. If the girls themselves do not want to meet each other halfway, perhaps forgetting the original reason for the quarrel, you can try to reconcile them. How to restore friendship and eliminate enmity?
Instructions
Step 1
Try to get involved in the lives of both friends and gradually unite them. This is possible if each of your friends has a favorable and friendly relationship with you.
Step 2
Come to visit each of the girls in turn to have a heart-to-heart talk and spend time together. Perhaps they will try to talk to you about the quarrel - try to be objective and dispassionate and do not start talking about the quarrel on your own initiative.
Step 3
Tell each girl that you are planning to organize a home party or celebration, and would like to see each of them there, but because of their protracted quarrel, you do not have this opportunity, as this will entail tension and resentment.
Step 4
Try to act directly - give each friend an invitation to this celebration. None of them wants to offend and upset you and will come, despite the presence of the second girl. Perhaps in a relaxed and festive atmosphere, friends will reconcile.
Step 5
Warn them that if they try to quarrel and ruin your holiday, you will never invite them to your place again. Proceed with caution and thoughtfulness so as not to displease both girls.
Step 6
If each of the friends has children, invite them too - the children do not pay attention to the disagreements of their parents, and the friends, seeing that their children are happy to play together, will begin to draw closer. Arrange team games and contests for children, invite their mothers to join the game. Willy-nilly, they will start playing together.
Step 7
In any case, reconciliation depends only on the wishes of the friends themselves. If you eventually realize that their relationship has completely exhausted itself, there will be no point in trying to reconcile.
