In our time, a quarrel in front of a child is a very common thing. This is how our modern world works. But don't be upset. Peace in the family can be restored on your own. There would be a desire.
It is necessary to find out the cause of the quarrel - this is one of the main tasks. If the reason is quite serious - addiction to alcohol or treason, for example, then your efforts here will be practically inappropriate. Dad and mom should solve such problems themselves, and your business is to come to terms with the decision of your parents. Although it is worth expressing your opinion.
Try to find a compromise
Once the cause of the fight has become clear, try to find a solution to the problem that will satisfy both parents. It is very difficult to find a compromise. For example, often a quarrel arises precisely because of his absence.
Discuss the problem with your parents
Having found out the cause of the quarrel and having an idea of how to solve the conflict peacefully, you can try to reconcile mom and dad. But just do not go ahead, but act carefully and tactfully. You can try to ask your mother about the reasons for the quarrel with your father. Ask how she personally sees the solution to the problem. Of course, this should be done when the father is not around. Such questions are worth asking in order to somehow start a conversation about a quarrel. Try to tell her how you are suffering because of their conflict. Mom must understand that their quarrels with her husband negatively affect the psyche of their beloved child. Then mom can look at the problem from a different angle. Here you will have to lie a little, saying that the father really wants to make peace, but does not know how. Invite her to take the first step herself. Now everything also needs to be done with dad. The result will not be long in coming.
Be reasonable
There is no need to rebel and do stupid things. Your departure from home or addiction to bad habits will not solve the problem and will not lead to good. This way you can bring your parents to the boiling point. In this situation, your task, on the contrary, is to calm and reconcile mom and dad.
A few practical tips
- Try to seat them at the same table. You can prepare a candlelit dinner for them.
- Invite Mom and Dad to the park at the same time, while you stay at home.
- You can send your mother a bouquet, supposedly from your father. But then to warn her that he categorically does not want my mother to know that the gift is from him.
- You can buy a small present for your dad, and give it on behalf of your mom. But, in the same way, to say that she ordered to give from herself.
- Reconciling people is easier when they are in a good mood. Encourage them to go to the cinema with the whole family for a light, fun movie.
- You can also jokingly say: “Dear parents, I am no longer angry with you, therefore, I allow you to immediately make peace. Kiss each other."
