Dislike manifests itself in indifference, unwillingness to support, share life experience, take time. The realization that a loved one does not love leads to isolation, interferes with the manifestation of openness and love for other people. This hinders the achievement of success in various areas of life.
Finding a Benchmark Find a family in your immediate environment that has a great relationship between parents and children. If you think the father loves children, treat this person as a role model. If you don't know such a family, expand your circle of friends. To do this, be in new places, do not avoid talking with people who are nearby. Sooner or later, you will be able to make friends with good people. Unrealistic Belief After observing the life of a prosperous family, convince yourself that your father is the same. This belief seems unrealistic and unrealizable, but you are modeling the future. Your thoughts are a kingdom in which you can find yourself instantly, and where desires come true. You don't have to wait decades to start enjoying life. Unobtrusive Caring Do something good for your father every day. Do this because he loves you - according to your beliefs. Caring for a person leads to miracles. First, you will feel stronger, because they always take care of the weaker ones. Secondly, gradually the father's heart may melt, and he will change his attitude towards you. Even if this does not happen in the near future, you will grow internally. Just be patient - consider that this is such a game. Unexpected Holidays If you notice a change in your father, immediately arrange a home holiday. Don't tell me what the joy is about - continue your game. In such moments, think that your kingdom is becoming more real. To create a holiday, do what you can - you can simply set the table beautifully and invite everyone to tea. A bright future Tell your father more often that when you retire, you will take care of him; or when you start earning more, buy him a car, etc. Inspire him with thoughts of a good future associated with you. Perhaps his father does not love, because he was not loved in childhood, and he did not play in the wonderful kingdom. Your efforts will make him think. Have pity on the unfortunate person Temporary Difficulties Do not give up if instead of positive changes the father becomes angrier. Sometimes it happens, but keep playing - treat it as if your dad is pretending to be a villain, but in fact not so. If you need support, turn to friends who have good families. They will give good advice.
