There are many reasons why wives leave their husbands. This can be a cooling of feelings, a betrayal of a husband, a new hobby for a woman, inappropriate behavior on the part of a spouse, etc. And if it was not possible to return your beloved, you will have to endure a difficult parting.
Instructions
Step 1
Let your wife go. Do not dream of a joint future - it will be gone. You should not be angry and say goodbye to her, leaving only bad memories in your soul. But, on the other hand, there is no need to idealize your spouse. It is often common for people after parting to look at the past through rose-colored glasses, since they begin to appreciate something only after they have lost it. In order not to suffer from parting with an ideal woman, try to remember the bad things that happened between you.
Step 2
Start rebuilding the future. While you and your wife were together, you probably had many different plans, but now the image of the future that you drew in your imagination will have to be destroyed. If you can't live without knowing what to do tomorrow or next month, make yourself a small plan. You must understand that you still have much to strive for, and life has not lost its meaning with the departure of your wife.
Step 3
Try to realize what was not available to you before. For example, if your wife didn’t allow you to jump with a parachute, do it now. If earlier you had to spend too much money on your family, now you can save up a little and go on a trip or buy what you have long dreamed of. So you can get away from gloomy thoughts and start living your life, not connected with the past and even in many ways different from it.
Step 4
If the separation is too painful for you, try not only to minimize communication with your wife, but also avoid any reminders of her. Otherwise, you yourself will deepen your wound, and it will not be possible to forget about the difficult parting for a long time. Erase your beloved's number from the phone, delete all her contacts, photos, etc., try to communicate with her as little as possible. It's hard to do this, especially if you have a lot of mutual friends, but it's worth the effort.
