Sometimes the relationship comes to its logical end, but the girl stubbornly refuses to notice it. Or the fairer sex is trying to start a relationship with a guy who doesn't need it at all. Then you need to beautifully "say goodbye" to the girl, but so as not to offend her.
When is it worth "sending" a girl
If you have feelings for a girl, but at some point you want to spend time not with her, but with friends or alone with yourself, you should kindly explain to her that you value your relationship very much, but you will be busy for some time. Tell her to call her as soon as you are free. The main thing is not to be rude, otherwise you risk losing your chosen one because of such a trifle.
If a representative of the fair sex cramps into your girls, and you do not feel any sympathy for her, then you really have to refuse her. It is not worth it to strike up a relationship with the unloved out of pity.
There are rare cases when a girl herself tries to achieve an intimate relationship. She behaves very frankly and makes all sorts of hints. It is better not to have sexual relations with her, if you do not plan to be near after that, remember that "free cheese is only in a mousetrap."
How to refuse a girl and not offend her
Never forget that you must look dignified in any situation. Even if the girl is very intrusive, do not say obscene words to her and do not raise your voice at her.
When a girl herself proposes to a guy her candidacy for the role of his beloved, her excitement just goes off scale. By rudely denying her, you can permanently underestimate her self-esteem. Instead of outright rejection, it's better to lie. Say that you are not yet ready for a serious relationship or that your heart, unfortunately, already belongs to another. Be sure to tell her: "Sorry, it happened, I'm very sorry." She will still be hurt and hurt, but not so much.
Don't put off the conversation until later. You need to immediately explain the current situation to her, otherwise, even in a short period, she may believe that a relationship between you is possible, after which it will be even more difficult for her to understand that this is not so.
Be extremely serious during the conversation. Look her straight in the eyes so she can trust you. Finally, compliment her. Say something nice, for example, "It's nice to know that such a beautiful girl paid attention to me" or "Believe me, not every girl dares to say that."
If you need to break up with your girlfriend, it is unlikely that everything will turn out so easy. Breaking up relationships that have developed even for a short time is much more difficult than those that have not begun at all. In this case, you really have to tell only the truth. Be honest, your ex needs to know why you can't be together.
The main thing is to remain a man in any situation. Set your priorities and only be with those for whom you have real feelings.
