Many of the women face such a problem as divorce. This is the time when the husband comes and talks about his intentions to leave. The pain experienced by a woman cannot be described.
After these terrible words have sounded, the woman begins to look for the reason: in herself, those around her, her husband. The feeling of guilt replaces the feeling of aggression and so on in a circle. Not understanding why this happened, the girl scrolls through her memory moments from family life and tries to understand where the moment is when she lost control of the situation. But there is no need to torment yourself, if a person has decided to leave, then he will leave. It is important to decide and understand how to live on.
The hardest part in this situation is to understand what happened. But realization does not come immediately, time must pass for the pain to subside at least a little, and a desire to live appears. Learning to live anew is very difficult, especially when there was a betrayal by a loved one. But these are life difficulties that you need to learn to cope with. Over time, the pain that has settled in the heart will subside and there will be hope for a brighter future. The main thing is to find strength and believe in yourself.
At the first stage of "healing", you need to mentally forgive and let the person go. This will be difficult, but necessary. Otherwise, it will be impossible to move forward. The second step will be to recognize your mistakes and correct them. Each person knows his own shortcomings, but for some reason forgets to work on them. Now is the perfect time to work on yourself and prepare yourself for a new relationship. The third and final stage will be based on setting goals and realizing your desires. Only when a woman understands what she really wants will life begin to change. There is no future without change and work on your past.
