Parting does not always go smoothly and by mutual agreement. Sometimes separation is very difficult for one of the former lovers, and he begins to look for any ways to get the relationship back. If your ex is acting too intrusive, put him in such conditions that he does not want to see you again.
Instructions
Step 1
Talk to the guy, explain that you can no longer be together, because the feelings have passed, and you want to live differently. Even if love for a person has not ended, you do not need to tell him about it, otherwise it will serve as a signal for active action. Try to communicate your position to him using convincing arguments. Speak calmly and don't show your emotions. Let the person understand that you are indifferent to him.
Step 2
Tell your ex that you've started a new relationship. Even if you are going to be alone for a long time, the annoying boyfriend does not need to know about it. To be convincing, ask one of your friends to go for a walk with you. Such feigned frivolity will drastically spoil the ex-boyfriend's attitude towards you.
Step 3
Stop going to places where your ex usually spends time. Even if there are very few places for entertainment in your city, limit yourself. Having stopped seeing you, the man will gradually begin to pay attention to other girls.
Step 4
Change your mobile phone number or blacklist your ex. Stop using the Internet for a while. Remove the guy from your social media friends list. If you have the opportunity, go to another city for a couple of weeks and inform only the closest people about your movements.
Step 5
Talk to your girlfriends, maybe one of them likes your ex. Then you can ask her to start paying attention to him. Most likely, this will flatter the man, and he will be able to forget about you.
Step 6
If none of the above helps you, and the guy continues to insist, agree to reconciliation. This doesn't mean you give up, just make the relationship unbearable. Demand very expensive gifts, be jealous of every girl you know, restrict freedom and quarrel with his relatives. All this will lead to the fact that the guy himself wants to part with you.
