Unfortunately, some people, having created a seemingly strong and happy family, cannot save their marriage. Leaving home for your husband is very painful, especially if you still have warm feelings for him. Such an act destroys all women's self-esteem and the usual way of life. How to deal with your emotions and return your husband to your family?
Instructions
Step 1
So, the first thing you should do is not to throw tantrums and shed tears, but be patient (if you are a wise and cunning woman). Since the tactics of waiting turns out to be the most effective, rather than intrigue and clarification of the relationship. Do not beg your spouse to return to the family, think about self-esteem, because it is he who is to blame for you, and not vice versa. Be as friendly and calm as possible.
Step 2
In no case do not interfere with the communication of children with their father, let him come into the house, communicate calmly (no offense and hysterics, do not make yourself a victim). Try to maintain an even and calm relationship with your husband, even despite the resentment and pain in your soul. Do not criticize your spouse's new passion, do not say anything bad (and good too) about her.
Step 3
Make the most of your breakup time. Call your friends and agree to arrange a joint shopping, buy new outfits. Do not forget to go to the beauty salon and hairdresser, change your hairstyle and hair color. Try to look attractive, your own reflection in the mirror should delight you (and obviously you should not see a tired and exhausted aunt in the mirror). Chat with friends and girlfriends, go to the movies and cafes. Take up your favorite pastime for which you did not find time before, be interesting in everything.
Step 4
Are you ready to forgive your cheating husband and return him to a cozy nest? It's time to act. Call your spouse and report a breakdown in your car or other household appliances, ask for help (try to speak as calmly as possible, do not use the words "cute" or "beloved", otherwise you can frighten off). It is possible that he is already waiting for the first steps from you. If your husband asks to postpone the meeting for another time, do not be angry, because now you are a wise and understanding woman.
Step 5
Prepare for the appointment, prepare delicious homemade food (he probably missed your cooking). Put on nice lingerie and dress, get your hair done, and don't forget about perfume. Of course, the spouse will immediately understand that you are seducing him, and, perhaps, will immediately go to contact. If his reaction is negative, keep your dignity in mind. After a while, he realizes that you are a different woman, more interesting, and he will definitely want to build a new relationship with you (as they say, from scratch).
