Most parents want their children to be calm, loving and kind to them. However, children are still small people, and, like adults, they experience anger, irritation, they have a bad mood. If your daughter starts to lash out at her parents, this behavior should be suppressed.
Instructions
Step 1
You turned off the TV and intend to put the child to bed, but instead of kissing mom and saying good night, the little daughter shouts: "I hate you!" This does not mean that the child really hates you. It's just that the little one still has a small vocabulary, so she is not able to say: "I am angry and upset because you did not let me watch the program." Help your child find words that will more accurately describe his emotional state, and then he will have no reason to break down at you with unreasonable claims.
Step 2
Young children are not yet able to adjust the pitch of their voices at will. They cannot speak louder or softer, they speak the way they do. Perhaps your daughter did not even think to take it out on you. Remind her regularly to speak calmly at home and not scream or scream.
Step 3
Children, like adults, have problems at school, quarrels with peers, and feeling unwell. Negative emotions look for a way out and end up in innocent parents. Offer your daughter other ways to release negative energy. Enroll the girl in the sports section. Install a real punching bag in her room, which the child can hit with all his might, breaking his bad mood. Together with your daughter, draw on a piece of paper the reason for her anger, and then tear the sheet into small pieces and discard it.
Step 4
Whatever upset your daughter is, don't let her get in a bad mood on you. If the child yelled at you, calmly say that you love her very much, but do not want to talk to her while she behaves this way. After the child calms down and apologizes, do not return to this situation again.
Step 5
Pay attention to your behavior. Perhaps, if a misunderstanding arises, you and your husband are accustomed to sorting things out in a raised voice. Naturally, your child will repeat after you. Train yourself to speak calmly, and then your child will do the same.
