Whatever relationship has developed in the family, the very desire for mutual understanding is wonderful. Unfortunately, people do not grow and realize their values at the same time. Therefore, someone must become a "victim", the first to meet the other half and be patient, while his soul grows to the level of mutual love. Such sacrificial, unconditional love bears fruit, but one must act wisely so as not to fall under an unbearable burden.
Instructions
Step 1
Set yourself up for victory. You should know why you need good relations with relatives. Many stop communicating and do not see each other for years. It's great that you have other aspirations. But you must understand the meaning of suffering, what it means to you. Write these thoughts in a journal, they will support you in difficult times.
Step 2
Take care of your family. These can be the simplest things. Have a family dinner with everyone at the non-alcoholic table. Do it spontaneously, for no reason. Say that you want to see it as a good family tradition. Let people know that you value your family. Find other ways to show concern. Buy fruit and bring it to relatives. Give them concert tickets. Let them know that someone cares about them. This is the basis of mutual understanding.
Step 3
Ask your family for help. It is not necessary to load them beyond their strength, let them do something simple. It is important to train them not only to take advantage of your care, but also to contribute to building a family themselves. Do it correctly. Give thanks for the help, don't take it for granted.
Step 4
Repeat from step 1. Train yourself to take care. Train your family to be you. It's not about prudence, who has done how many good deeds. There simply should not be a situation when one person drags everyone on him. Working together should be the norm. Helping each other should become a tradition.
