The family plays a major role in raising a child. What he gets here at a young age will be reflected in his character, lifestyle, habits, etc. That is why parents need to make every effort to ensure that the family as a developing environment for the child has a positive effect on him.
The kid is constantly with his family, he sees everything that happens in the life of his parents. He, like a little monkey, simulates the behavior of adults. If the mother is constantly arguing with the father, the baby will perceive this as normal. You don't want your child to think that conflicts are quite common in the family? When the baby grows up, he will also quarrel with his soul mate.
Therefore, it is important to set only a good example for the child. All people close to him (dad, mom, girls, grandmothers, sisters, brothers) should love him and take care of him. The family is a team that forms the character of the baby. In no case should you set a bad example for him.
How to make sure that the bad influence of the family is exerted on the child as little as possible? Be patient. For example, if you are an unrestrained person who begins to sort things out with other people on every occasion, try not to do this in front of a child. The baby should see calm parents who do not scold, do not scream, do not fight, but love their baby and surround him with warmth and care.
Advice
You must show the child that family values exist in their family: mutual understanding, mutual assistance, constant support from each other. Create an atmosphere of warmth and love around him - put only good and light in the foundation of his future life.
Spend time with your child as much as possible, talk to him. The baby should feel like a part of the family, an important person for you. Walk with him to the park, go out into the countryside, dine in a cafe - no matter what activity you choose. The main thing is to bring as much joy to each other as possible.
Calmly react to his pranks, disobedience. Shouting you will still not achieve anything, only cause irreparable harm to the child. Try to calmly explain to your child that he did the wrong thing. Hug him and tell him that you love him.
Establish family traditions. For example, have picnics in nature on weekends, have holiday dinners, and sit together in the evenings in front of the TV. This brings all family members very close to each other.
Respect each other. There is no need to sort things out with the child. It is better to lock yourself in another room and discuss the problems in a non-raised voice. If you suddenly have a fight with the baby, after a short time make up with him. Hug him, tell him you love. Only strong people can admit their mistakes. So, you will set a good example for your baby.
