A person's lifestyle, character and habits largely depend on the environment. If your friends and colleagues are mostly positive, successful, and motivated people, you yourself acquire these positive characteristics. You should change your environment if you want to improve yourself and your life.
Instructions
Step 1
If you want to change your environment, start changing yourself. The environment is your mirror, an indicator. You attract people who are very similar to you. If you like to talk about rumors - gossips will reach out to you, if you prefer to spend evenings at the bar - drunks will become your friends, consider yourself a loser - there will be the same unhappy people around you. But serious, purposeful, creative and business people will not be interested in you.
Step 2
Make a list of the qualities that you want to see in your environment. Then try to identify places where you can meet people with these qualities. You can meet promising personalities at thematic exhibitions, seminars, conferences. It is at these events that people are open for acquaintances and communication.
Step 3
Find common ground with new people you know. If you don't, you will be perceived as someone from another planet. Read the literature intended for your potential friends, attend relevant trainings. Try to imagine that you are one of these people, and your thinking will gradually begin to change.
Step 4
A good environment is people who are one step above you. You will be able to adopt from them new patterns of behavior, positive subconscious programs, and become infected with their enthusiasm and cheerfulness. But you should also be interesting and useful to these people. It may turn out that they lack attention, participation, support.
Step 5
At a certain point in your work on yourself and on the new environment, it may turn out that with the old circle of acquaintances, all the connecting threads will disappear. If you want to keep some people in your environment, explain to them the reasons for changing your worldview and try to stay in touch with them. Those who try to pull you back in, lower your self-esteem with criticism, should be ignored.
Step 6
Remember that the environment cannot change overnight. But if you want to change it and will put in some effort for this, in the end you will achieve what you want.
