According to statistics, more than 30% of modern women have experienced what a fling is - a one-night relationship. Fling is not acceptable for every, even the most exalted, lady, since it implies non-binding sex, and not everyone is ready for this type of relationship.
According to the French psychologist F. Chevry, fling has absolutely nothing to do with depravity, nymphomania and depravity. Fling is pure love of sex. The reasons why people prefer fling to long-term relationships can vary. Some are looking for vivid sensations, others are trying, thus, to take revenge on those who cheated on them, for others, one night's sex is an attempt to somehow diversify their personal lives and forget about loneliness. To prevent fling from becoming the cause of mental suffering and self-criticism, you should play according to the rules that it dictates. And there are several of these rules.
Since fling is all about sex, you shouldn't try to turn it into something more. There is no need to try to find out the phone number from your partner or find out any details of his life. A man, deciding on such a relationship, is unlikely to want their continuation, because he knows that for a woman, such sex was only a non-binding entertainment, and not everyone wants to connect their lives with this type of woman. That is why many of those who practice fling advise not to allow kissing on the lips, because it is with a kiss that many people have a feeling of physical and spiritual closeness with a partner.
Fling is just one meeting. You shouldn't forget about it.
Do not forget about your own safety and do not show up on a date without a condom in your purse, because not all men are prudent and carry contraception in their pockets, and you do not need the risk of contracting dangerous diseases.
It is best if the date is in neutral territory. You should not bring a man to you, and even more so you should not go to his house. This will be much easier both morally and in terms of safety.
The advantage of flinging is that partners do not need to know each other's names. To heighten the excitement, you can even call yourself a different name and play the role of a completely different person. You don’t have to be yourself, and you don’t have to expect this from your partner. If you have always dreamed of acting as a fatal seductress and for some reason could not afford it, then fling is your chance to show your acting skills.
One of the most important rules of fling is independence, especially financial independence. A true fling fan will not allow a partner to pay for his glass of wine or hotel bill. Fling should not evoke a sense of duty, much less a sense of guilt.
According to psychologists, fling fans are people who are inclined to take risks.
If you are looking for a soul mate, or are already in love, then fling is not for you. At least that's what most psychologists think. Also, this type of relationship is contraindicated for those who are poorly versed in people or are inclined to dream and build castles in the air.
Well, if you often change your plans, are not inclined to self-criticism and love to get new impressions, then it is quite possible that fling will help you paint your life with bright colors. The main thing is not to lose your head and follow the established rules of the game.
