Sometimes it happens that even strong and well-established couples break up. In many cases, one of the partners experiences a very strong and painful breakup. Of course, over time, there is a realization of why the relationship broke up, but this is only over time. In order to determine the cause of the collapse of the established union, a poll was carried out, in which men and women participated, according to its results, several fundamental factors were identified.
- Most people, both men and women, have a clear plan for the future in their heads, or not very clear. Naturally, no one knows how to read a partner's thoughts and no one can assume his behavior in a given situation. At the beginning of a nascent relationship, each partner tries to show himself from the most attractive and beneficial side. Subsequently, it may turn out that a wife or just a girl flatly refuses to spend all evenings and weekends in the kitchen, pleasing the stomach of her beloved. Or, on the contrary, the family has a critical financial situation, and the husband is not in a hurry to look for work. Some, hand in hand, cope with the problem, while others prefer to part.
- . An acute lack of money makes people have little contact and nervousness, in such a situation it is very difficult to keep carrying each other. Partners can make claims to each other: you earn little or spend too much, and so on.
- Jealousy. Some of the partners want to control every step of the second half, not letting them literally breathe freely: endless calls, searches for incriminating SMS messages, climbing on the spouse's social networks, and so on. This behavior is typical for people of both sexes, who often themselves do not suffer from excessive fidelity.
- Rivalry. One person alone is not a family yet, and only two can build a lasting relationship. If partners are constantly competing with each other (the reasons can be very diverse, ranging from chores around the house and ending with the amount of money earned), then these relationships are doomed to failure.
- Each partner has his own vision and idea of home comfort, leisure and holidays, relationships with loved ones, and so on. Different perceptions of the world can cause serious problems in relations between partners. Of course, it is very difficult to change character, sometimes it is impossible at all, but do not forget about respect and that the other half may have their own interests.
- At the very beginning of a relationship, girls are ready to listen to their guys for days, and they, in turn, tirelessly repeat compliments and sing praises. There are plenty of topics for conversation, every word is already understood, but this does not last long. In the absence of attention from the other half, one of the partners may feel lonely, unnecessary, betrayed. To maintain a relationship, you need to set aside some time you spend alone.
During quarrels, people often surrender to emotions, forgetting about common sense. Even the smallest offense on the part of a partner seems to be a universal evil and a reason to end the relationship. In such situations, it is better to disperse to different rooms and cool slightly, otherwise the consequences may be irreversible.
