Sex in all its manifestations is an indescribably beautiful phantasmagoria, a short-term conciliatory interpenetration of opposites. He is handsome, primitive, gentle and violent at the same time. A rush of passion sometimes pushes on indescribable recklessness. However, it is important to be able to stop or stop in time.
It happens that one of the partners (usually a man) tries to forcibly persuade him to some form of affection. This often applies specifically to oral sex. There is no such man who is able to deny himself this pleasure. However, not all girls are morally ready to orally satisfy their man. There can be many reasons: not so brought up, feels a feeling of disgust, refuses in order to avoid gagging, or simply extinguishes due to his own ineptitude. In such a situation, it is important to behave competently for both, so as not to destroy the beauty that has managed to develop between them. So what if a guy makes you give a blowjob
If even a heart-to-heart conversation does not bring results, you should seriously think about how much this person appeals to you. And does he generally treat you and your desires (in this case reluctance) properly.
Playful dodging
Suppose you merge in an incomprehensibly intoxicating kiss, during which he runs his fingers through your hair, and, clinging, provokes you to go down lower. At such a moment, you can, by dodging, dig into his lips again, or direct all your ardor in a different direction, for example, on his earlobe. This is the erogenous zone of most men, the impact on which may well be distracting. However, you should understand that this is a temporary option.
The same coin
You can behave differently, making it clear that he needs to deserve oral sex. And deserve it in the same way. Indeed, if he considers himself entitled to demand a blowjob from you, why shouldn't you ?!
Intimate talk
By the way, no one canceled confidential conversations. Have a casual conversation with your man about how disagreeable you are with his persistence. Explain that this expression of love hates you. Or try to convey to him the fact that you are not ready for oral sex at this stage of your relationship. Let him understand that you yourself must come to this. And that his aggressive persistence would rather postpone this moment than bring it closer.
When feelings are true, you just want to give affection to the object of adoration, and not because he is too demanding, but because you do not have the strength to resist your own impulses.
And, however, maybe it is worth closing our eyes to all the "but", and plunge (diving is not at all necessary) into the pool with your head? After all, you don't know for sure how you feel about something until you try it. The main thing is to always listen to the call of your own heart, while not losing sight of the arguments of reason.
