If it seems to you that there is a discord in your family, you began to quarrel with your wife more often and get angry with her over all sorts of trifles, it means that you simply ceased to understand her. Of course, women's psychology is different from men's. But if you are not obliged to delve into the subtleties of the psychology of your employees at work, then you should learn to understand your spouse. How to understand a wife in order to end conflicts in the family?
Instructions
Step 1
Look at the situation from her perspective. Perhaps your behavior really deserves her condemnation. For example, you were late at work and forgot to warn your wife about it - you just had no time, you had to urgently finish the project and you just forgot that they were waiting for you at home. Of course, you are right for yourself - the bosses demanded a result, you completely devoted yourself to work and could not think about anything else. But if you imagine yourself in the place of your wife?
Step 2
Just think: you are waiting after work for your loved one, cooked a delicious dinner, canceled a meeting with friends, and not only did he not show up on time, he also does not answer calls! You just need to understand how your behavior will affect your wife, because you must be responsible to your family.
Step 3
Do not bring the conflict to the point of absurdity if the reason for it is some petty feminine whim. Even if it is sometimes difficult and you do not want to give in at all, but nevertheless, you should always remember that in front of you is a woman, a being of the weaker sex. Forgive your wife little whims, learn to enjoy what you please her. After all, sometimes you can watch her favorite French film, and not another comedy. Or go on a weekend to her parents, and not with friends out of town. Believe me, your wife will appreciate your efforts and will be less capricious!
Step 4
Learn to listen to what your wife has to say and listen to her requests. Nothing annoys a woman more than having to repeat and ask for the same thing several times. After all, it is easier to immediately do what your spouse asks of you than to bring the situation to the next quarrel. Just understand that your wife considers your inaction to be disrespectful to her. Moreover, it is not so difficult for you, a strong and intelligent man, to go straight away to take out the trash or set aside half an hour to help your wife sort things out on the mezzanine.
