A truly wise woman can make her marriage strong and happy, and her relationship with her beloved man is harmonious. If you want to improve your married life, reconsider your relationship with your husband.
Instructions
Step 1
Build your relationship with your spouse based on love, understanding and respect. These are the categories that should be present in a harmonious couple. Take care of each other's feelings. Do not let your sincere affection and affection grow into a habit when the husband and wife stop expressing concern and affection. Share your thoughts and concerns with your husband. Be open and honest.
Step 2
Don't restrict your spouse's freedom. Understand that he needs personal space and time for himself. There is no need to stand between your husband and his hobby, express dissatisfaction with his friends. Better to take care of your personal life, get some hobbies, meet with your friends more often. It is not necessary to dissolve in your spouse completely and even more so to demand the same in return.
Step 3
Don't criticize your husband behind his back. You should not discuss the details of your married life with strangers, even if it is your close friends or relatives. You yourself have chosen such a man, you live with him, which means that this is your free decision. Therefore, there is no need to complain about a loved one. In the presence of other people, try not to sort things out with your chosen one and not express dissatisfaction with your marriage. Solve all problems in private.
Step 4
You don't need to show your spouse your jealousy. Trust me, this emotion can ruin a marriage. By making unfounded claims of infidelity to a man, you show your low self-esteem, lack of confidence in your attractiveness. In addition, by your suspicions, you demonstrate distrust towards your husband. If you are worried about something, talk to your spouse calmly and clarify all the details.
Step 5
Do not try to remake your chosen one. Accept it as it is, with all its features. Do not forget that it is such a person that you singled out among all the applicants for your heart and fell in love. You don't want your spouse to lose their individuality and change their habits. It will not change dramatically. You knew who you were marrying. If something does not suit you at all, it may be better not to torture either your husband or yourself.
Step 6
Be patient. Remember, marriage is all about compromises. Sometimes you have to sacrifice something for the sake of family happiness. It is impossible to receive love and happiness without sacrificing anything. Sometimes you have to give up on your own desires. Sometimes it is necessary to give in for the sake of peace in the family and general well-being, and a truly wise wife understands this.
