Have you ever wondered why fairy tales end with a wedding? And then, as if, and tell nothing. But after the wedding, life is just beginning. After the wedding, the courtship period ends and the initially hot passion begins to slowly fade away. At best, an acute fall in love is transformed into a calm deep love. And at worst, the warm feelings of lovers disappear without a trace, and in their place comes tiredness and irritation. How to keep your love for years to come? How to Become a Good Wife?
Psychologists agree that most of the responsibility for the relationship in marriage falls on the shoulders of the woman. It depends on the woman how warm, open and harmonious the relationship will be in a couple. A woman has a more developed intuition, she better feels the situation and the smallest changes in the relationship. Women tend to be more flexible and wiser than men. Therefore, any woman can, if desired, find a way to become a better wife and fall in love with a man for many years.
The main thing to understand and remember is that a man loves with his eyes. Therefore, in no case should you allow yourself to look unkempt with your husband.
As women reason - if he loves me, then he must love anyone: both painted and not painted, and with a mask of cucumbers on his face. It is not right. From such moments, a man begins to lose interest in a woman. Therefore, you must always be at your best, try to look your best.
Wear beautiful clothes and makeup at home. Many women dress beautifully when they go for a walk or to work, and at home they wear an old dressing gown. This is strange and wrong. It is at home that you need to look beautiful for a person who is important to you, and in other places it is not necessary to conquer everyone with your beauty.
Men attach great importance to the beauty of the female figure, so you need to carefully monitor your weight. Most men prefer to say that they are satisfied with the figure of a woman, although in reality this may not be so. They are silent because they do not want to offend. But at the same time they look at beautiful slender women.
Do not humiliate your husband in any way, especially in front of strangers. Such grievances are remembered for a long time and are hardly forgiven. Do not talk to your husband constantly about his shortcomings - he himself remembers them very well. Criticism very rarely helps a person become better. Usually she just spoils the mood and relationships, and nothing more.
Try not to argue with the man. What do you want more - to be right or to be a happy woman?
Let your husband feel like a man next to you - the most important, strong and responsible. As a reward for your ability to concede or remain silent at the right time, you will receive a man who is able to be your protection and support.
Many overly emancipated women themselves, with their own hands, break men, turn them henpecked. And then they complain, they say, there are no real men, there is no one to rely on. Do not go down this path, it is not right.
Be varied. Change your image, hairstyle. Get new hobbies and hobbies from time to time. Be unpredictable sometimes, surprise. Thus, you can avoid the routine in the relationship.
Keeping love for a long time is a completely doable task. Happy harmonious relationships can be maintained for fifty years, you just need to constantly make certain efforts in this direction.
