If you have already heard enough from lazy and inept women that there are no ideal marriages, then you urgently need to throw all these wrong thoughts out of your head. It happens! And how! My husband and I have been living together for many years, we are still very happy, in love and passionate. The point is that it is the woman who builds the perfect marriage. A happy marriage is hard work every day. I will share with you my own secrets, thanks to which there are flowers in my room on a regular basis, and my husband, for many years, admirably calls me "the most amazing woman in the world."
the beauty
In every family, the wife is a person. It is she who should be chic: slim, beautiful and well-groomed. Even if your husband has grown a beer belly and let go of a prickly beard, do not allow yourself to relax, justifying yourself with the thoughts “He can do it, but what am I worse?”. You just don't have the right to dissolve yourself.
Every week (1-2 times) I retire to the bathroom for a couple of hours with an epilator, eyebrow tweezers, a manicure set, mask creams and other women's gadgets. Ideally, if at this time the husband is not at home. Thanks to this “beauty watch”, I always have smooth and well-groomed skin, beautiful hair and stylish nails. My beloved still sincerely believes that all this is from nature and regularly admires me in front of his friends.
Once, when I got into a men's company, I heard that men, with an expression of disgust on their faces, were discussing how their wives shave their legs and armpits, cut their nails, folding them on a piece of paper right in front of them. Lovely girls! Let's rid our husbands of these details of their physiology. If after these words some of the women start throwing tomatoes at me and claim that “in true love you need to know everything about each other, nothing can be nasty” or the stupid “what is natural is not ugly,” you don’t believe them.
Farm
I say right away, I am against joint housekeeping if the wife does not work. If both of you return home in the evening tired and hungry, then it will be disgusting to demand from you "You are a wife, let's cook." Well, if you are sitting at home … I have always been outraged by non-working friends who take offense at their husbands for not helping them around the house. Responsibilities should be clearly delineated. For example, he - makes money, you - equip comfort. Thus, everyday quarrels will disappear. Everything is like at work. List of cases for which everyone is responsible.
I get up in the morning when my husband leaves for work. Be sure to feed him a hot breakfast (it's not difficult to knead pancakes in the evening or prepare everything you need for an omelet)! After that, I quickly put things in order (if you do not start it, it takes 30-40 minutes), I cook something delicious for lunch and dinner. Then I have a lot of time for myself and my small business. By the way, culinary forums help me a lot. Communicating with girls on them, I can easily please my husband with goodies every day. I don’t buy sausages, pastries, or any kind of semi-finished products.
Nowadays, it is much cheaper and tastier to bake cookies and cook a good piece of meat. And having allocated a day a month, you can easily stick "homemade semi-finished products": stuffed peppers, dumplings, dumplings, cutlets and more. Thanks to them, you can easily be lazy for several days, but at the same time do not feed your beloved husband with store-bought muck. We also have an exotic day. Once a month, on weekends, I cook unusual, original and exotic dishes. My man adores these days.
Children
We have two lovely and beloved children. Since the birth of our eldest daughter, we have started many family traditions: holidays, weekends, vacations, field trips, “play days”, evening readings and much more. The husband knows perfectly well on what days we are planning to arrange this or that event, remembers what hours we are engaged with the children (for this I gave him a filled diary), therefore he can always correctly allocate his time and make plans. We have no quarrels over the fact that he went fishing instead of playing with the children. He's just planning his entertainment for a day off. All this may sound rather dry, but we spend a lot of time with our beloved children.
Sex and relationships
When I was very young, I also took offense at my husband and blamed him for not making surprises for me, not arranging enchanting nights. As a result, I realized that my man is simply not able to sit and invent inscriptions on the asphalt at the entrance (but he has many other advantages!). I began to arrange surprises and sexual games for him myself. Thanks to this, we have managed to maintain the passion to this day. Interestingly, over time, my beloved began to respond in kind to me. Over the years, it has turned into an exciting game, we invent all new original surprises and gifts for each other and at the same time we are happy like children. And the most important thing! Never punish your husband with sex! Agree once and for all that all quarrels and omissions remain on the threshold of the bedroom. This will save you from many problems and most scandals.
