Acquaintance. Date. First kiss. Meetings. Relationship. The first is "I love". First quarrel. First tears. Parting. According to statistics, the outcome of most romantic relationships in adolescence is tragic. Both boys and girls become the initiators of the rupture of love ties, but it is generally accepted that the fair sex leaves forever, and men return sooner or later.
If a girl decides to end a relationship with her lover, the reason for this may be male betrayal, inattention, misunderstandings, reproaches, or new love. Before parting with her soul mate, the lady thinks over her decision for a long time, weighs all the pros and cons. Due to their emotional nature, girls are afraid to rush into the pool with their heads and lose everything they have. In turn, representatives of the stronger sex act differently.
Any man's whim can become the reason for a man's departure. People often talk about feminine logic, forgetting that the stronger sex in some cases does not have it at all. “She doesn't understand me,” the young man thinks and rushes in search of someone with whom she can share her problems. “She doesn't appreciate me,” he decides and starts looking for the one who will admire him. “She doesn't care about me”; "She is stupid"; “I’m tired of it,” and the hunt for the next victim opens again.
A tragic but rather interesting story happened to me recently. As it happens most often, on the Internet I met an attractive young man. Communication started somehow very quickly. At first it was correspondence, then calls, conversations until midnight. He asked for a meeting, and at that time I was in another city. For two weeks of communication via cellular communication, I became so attached to this man that I could not wait for our live acquaintance. And now, the date is set, but I am returning to the city ahead of schedule. Upon learning of this, he insists to meet on the same day. Stepping uncertainly towards him, I could not wait to finally see him. I didn't care how he looked, whether he was handsome, short or tall, what color his eyes were. I too keenly felt the kinship of our souls and was sure that this was exactly my person. “We will meet now. I will hug you tightly and I will never let you go. You are the one I need,”was constantly spinning in my head.
And so, the long-awaited acquaintance took place. On the first day I stayed with him, on the second day I brought my things to him, on the third day I bought the necessary "women's things", and on the fourth day we parted, and the reason for the termination of the relationship was not explained to me. He just decided that, and I had only to courageously (as far as I had the strength) to accept his decision.
There were many tears. The first week I tried to work, not noticing anything around, and when I came home I wrote poetry, called my friends, family, sobbed into my pillow. The second week was more difficult. During the night shift, I had a nervous breakdown, and then an ambulance and two weeks of sick leave.
Over time, I learned to live without him, but I stopped smiling altogether, ate almost nothing, and at night I was still periodically sitting on the windowsill, crying bitterly and constantly repeating the same question into the darkness: “What was wrong? Why did you go away?"
After four months we still met. Quite by accident, on public transport. He was silent, and I sobbed. The next day, he called me to his place to talk and finally explain.
The reason for his departure completely unsettled me. “You are too sweet and kind. I'm a terrible person. You didn't deserve this. And what about male logic after this turn of events?
Women cannot know what is going on in the head of their beloved. The reasons for men to leave can be overwhelming. One thing is for sure, most often guys return to those with whom they were good and comfortable, to those who loved them, who believed in them. They spend some time in search of something better, but, realizing their mistake, they decide to return the past. If the man left and did not return, then you did not give him enough warmth and love, and you should only blame yourself.
