What is love? This is perhaps one of the most difficult terms. First of all, it is a feeling of deep sympathy for another person.
This feeling is characteristic of absolutely every person. Sooner or later, an individual, be he a man or a woman, falls in love. But this is not the most important thing for starting a family. Love should be mutual. So what is mutual love? How to define this very reciprocity? Very often, a person hides his sympathy only because he is afraid of a lack of reciprocity. This is a very complex process. Especially nowadays. After all, consumer relations are often encountered. In this case, there can be no question of any love. Accordingly, a happy and strong family will not come out of this.
There are several signs of mutual love:
- the desire to spend more time together;
- care and respect;
- distance cannot be a hindrance;
- support each other in any situation.
These signs should be enough to start thinking about marriage. It is important not to confuse love with a simple habit. In this case, a habit is a simple need for a person. But need is not love at all. Love is a deeper process. This is the high point of the relationship. In this case, the family will be happy. There is a good proverb: "To get to know a person, you need to live with him." Absolutely right. It is important not to rush to start a family. You must first get to know the person completely. After all, it is with him that you will have to live the rest of your life. Therefore, it is important to live together first. If life goes on quietly and calmly, and an idyll reigns in the house, then even this does not mean that you are made for each other. Every person is different. This is a very complex process. As they say: “Love is a hard thing.” So it is. If one couple can live their whole life in peace, then the other couple can, under this condition, part because the spark in the relationship may disappear. That is why it is important to first go through any difficulties with a loved one. And not just to experience, but to feel them together. And if even at critical moments the partner does not leave, then the choice is made correctly! This is the same person! Just do not look for these critical moments. Sooner or later they will come by themselves. And if they do not come, then you need to rejoice in. No difficulties - no problems.
Love is the engine of a happy family. The whole mechanism of family relations is built on it. Only in happy families do spouses truly love each other. This is perhaps the most important thing!
