For almost every person, betrayal is a betrayal, the collapse of some hopes, dreams and ideals. You were with your soul mate, everything was fine, but then it was like a bolt from the blue: you learned about this fact. And the world will collapse. What to do next?
Instructions
Step 1
Before you do anything, find out how true this information is. Perhaps they just envied your happiness and decided to ruin your relationship in this way?
Step 2
If all this is confirmed, try to control yourself. Don't scream or throw tantrums. By doing this, you will not solve the problem, but only exacerbate the situation. A man can simply leave, avoiding a terrible scandal.
Step 3
Before talking, sit down and consider whether you should forgive your loved one. Calm down, because in the heat of the moment you can "break the wood".
Step 4
If you want to stay in touch, then sit down and have a quiet conversation with your loved one. Talk about what prompted you to take such a step. Maybe he is missing something in his relationship with you? Some men look for affection in the hands of another woman if the wife is constantly shouting, "nagging."
Step 5
Do not consult other people under any circumstances. Life is yours and you must make the decision yourself. After all, friends and relatives cannot feel your attitude towards your husband. Of course, they will be on your side and, perhaps, advise you to leave such a fickle man.
Step 6
Accept treason as a fact, you need to try to find a way out of this situation. This has already happened and there is no getting away from it. If you have decided to forgive and start everything from a clean face, then you should not remember her and poke a man with every quarrel.
Step 7
And most importantly: no litigation with children. They should not see your tears and hear what a bad daddy is. You may reconcile, and the children will have an "imprint" for the rest of their lives.
Step 8
Once you understand the reasons, try to change your relationship. Maybe you should add a little romance to them and be more affectionate to your man. Spend more time together, remember how your relationship began. Talk about your love more often, praise him. And try to solve problems without yelling and hysterics.
Step 9
If a man wants to leave after what happened, do not hold him. Also, do not speak rudely, humiliate each other. Let go of the situation, take time for yourself, do what you love. And life will gradually start to please you.
