One day, far from being a fine day, you will learn the terrible news - you have been cheated on. You cannot be ready for this, it is always like a bolt from the blue. How to live on, how to overcome this burden?
Instructions
Step 1
Take revenge.
The first thing that comes to mind for many is revenge. It is believed that this can help to survive the pain of betrayal. Well, it really helps some. As a rule, this is either a too protracted relationship at the same stage, where people are looking for development and interest not in each other, but in other people, or initial, not deep relationships, when people did not have time to become attached to each other. More often than not, this way out of the situation will only make you feel as guilty as the cheating partner.
Step 2
Break the relationship.
The psychology of real family life shows that if a partner cheated once and was forgiven, then he will repeat it over and over again. Impunity will certainly bear fruit - a person will know that forgiveness may be difficult for him: he will have to give flowers, repent in pictures and wring his hands in the agony of despair, but sooner or later it will come. And the next time the partner will deliberately go for betrayal. The motto of many is “Have you been cheated on? Shout: "Next!"
Step 3
Forgive and survive.
A creative way out. If a partner is cheating, there are reasons for this. As a rule, both are to blame. Perhaps the reason for the betrayal was coldness and lack of attention. “Happiness is when we are understood,” the famous hero Ganzha wrote in his essay. So it is from a lack of understanding that people decide to cheat. And also from a lack of trust. “So she sawed and sawed me, suspected and suspected, so I decided - if she still eats me, why shouldn't I change?” - a frequent male excuse. Indeed, sometimes women are so insecure that they do not want to change, but to run away from them wherever they look. Cheating is very hard. Most likely, you will need the help of a psychologist. Do not hesitate to contact a specialist and "cure" the cause of the betrayal, not its consequences.
