A woman watching the collapse of her relationship is always in a state of confusion, so it is especially difficult for her to make a decision about their future fate. Therefore, so often on women's forums one can come across the question - is it worth getting a divorce or is it better to continue to fight for the preservation of the family. Psychologists say that this is a rhetorical question, because women listen only to those advice that coincides with their own vision of the situation.
Instructions
Step 1
It is imperative to make the decision to divorce on your own, because this is a fateful decision that changes your whole life.
Step 2
Thinking about this problem, you need to ask yourself two main questions: "why and why am I doing this?" So you can understand what specifically does not suit you, and assess whether it is possible to change the situation, or there is no need to fight.
Step 3
As a result, you will see the ultimate goal, understand what you want from the relationship and how to achieve it. In a situation where it is problematic to decide on your own, it is better not to focus on the experience of friends, but to visit a psychologist who will help you understand the situation in your family.
Step 4
Only a professional will help you understand yourself, understand the reasons for what is happening and exclude them in the future. The psychologist will help you realize how much you are ready to fight for a relationship, and whether it is worth doing it, or is it better to choose a divorce.
Step 5
To understand your attitude to the situation, you need to take a blank sheet of paper and write on it a series of questions that help evaluate your attitude towards your own family.
Step 6
By answering these questions, you will formulate what is so often difficult to put into words, this will help to weigh the pros and cons and make an informed decision. At the same time, it is important to remember that the men around you are also far from ideal, and no one guarantees you that the next relationship will be better than the previous ones.
Step 7
Therefore, experts advise in easy cases to try to change the situation or simply adjust your attitude towards it. Sometimes this is much easier than a divorce and further difficult searches for a new life partner.
Step 8
Do not take divorce as a way to get rid of problems. Relationships need to be worked on, and divorce should only be resorted to in an emergency.
