"How to find a normal guy?" - many girls ask this question. However, before starting the search, the girl needs to decide which guy she considers "normal". Someone is looking for a young man to have a little affair with him, go to restaurants and discos … And someone needs a young man for a long, serious relationship. Places and methods of search depend on the goal.
What should be a "normal" guy?
As you know, all people are different. They have different personalities, life experiences and educational level, habits, tastes, interests and hobbies. Also, the criteria for choosing a "normal" guy can be completely different. However, there are universal human values and moral qualities that should be inherent in everyone - these are kindness, responsiveness, decency, honesty, reliability, responsibility, politeness, mental tact, and hard work. It is desirable that a "normal guy" has all of these qualities. At the same time, it is not so important whether he is a student of a prestigious university or works at a factory, he came from a wealthy or ordinary "average" family. In the end, money and a career are profitable, and you can't buy mental qualities for any money.
Of course, there are no ideal people and it is not so easy to meet a prince on a white horse, but any person can have advantages that compensate for individual shortcomings and make him attractive.
Of course, at first glance it is not so easy to determine whether he is a decent person or a scoundrel. Therefore, casual acquaintances on the street, in a disco or on the Internet are still not very suitable for finding a normal guy. Guys from a disco are most often looking for a girlfriend for one night, on the Internet there is always a risk of running into a "maniac" or a banal deceiver who ascribes non-existent dignity to himself. And the street, as they say, is full of surprises …
Places to Find Nice Guys
Or maybe you need to look not for a "normal", but just a good guy? One that you can always rely on, with whom you can live your whole life, raise children, meet the arrival of old age together … You need to look for it, perhaps, in those places where you can make a long acquaintance, constantly communicate with a person, study his character, habits and interests. Such places can be work or educational institution (college, university, driving school, computer courses, etc.). You can meet friends or relatives of your girlfriends and friends, who will have the opportunity to observe for a while before starting a serious relationship. And also - it often happens that people meet and get to know each other completely unexpectedly, fall in love with each other, and then live happily all their lives. And how this happens - no one knows, as there are no ready-made recipes for happiness. So sometimes you can find a normal guy without trying to look for him at all.
